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6/13/99 Dwell On These Things Phili. 4:8

6/13/99 DWELL ON THESE THINGS

Phil. 4:8 ¶ Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, let your mind dwell on these things.

I cannot bring myself to part from this verse
      without spending one more morning with it.

Our time the past two weeks
      have been invested in looking at
            some of the consequences of not doing
                  what Paul calls us to do in this verse.

Sometimes we need to do that.
      Sometimes it is of value
            to become aware of the traps
                  and the lies that war against our health as God's people.

But I don't want us to leave this verse
      until we spend a little more time
            looking at it from the positive side.

If you have been with us the past two weeks
      you know by now the importance
            I see Paul placing on the choices we make
                  about what we choose
                        to focus our thinking on.

You see, underlying this statement
      that Paul makes here in Phili. 4:8
            there are several probably obvious
                  but extremely important assumptions.

1. One of those assumptions
      is the understanding that
            our mental activity,
                  our ability to think, to reason,
                        is a highly valued,
                              strictly limited resource.

We've already talked about the way in which
      we can only focus our minds
            on one thing at a time.

And then each day
      we have a limited number of hours
            in which to use our minds.

When we tuck our tired little bodies into bed each night
      there is nothing we can ever do
            to retrieve the hours of the day
                  we've just lived through.

Whatever we chose to do with those hours,
      and whatever investment we've chosen to make with our minds
            has become a permanent part
                  of who we are.

Have you ever watched a movie
      and at the end of it said to yourself,
"I can't believe I invested
            two and half hours of my life
                  in that stupid film!"?

I'm certainly not trying to depress us all
      with the shortness of life,
            but I see one of Paul's crucial underlying assumptions
                  in his comment to us here in Phili. 4:8 being the healthy realization
                        that our thinking time
                              is a limited resource.
We've only got so much of it to invest.

And "INVEST" is perhaps
      one of the best words I could use
            to emphasis the concept
                  being presented in this passage.

We understand the concept of investment
      when it comes to money.

We also understand the concept
      of limited resources.

Most of us only receive
      a limited, fixed amount of money
            each week
                  or each month.
Some of it we must invest
      in the necessities of life - food, shelter, utilities.

Some of it we choose to invest
      in non-essentials
            that we feel enhance our quality of life.

And some of it we may choose to invest
      in things that bring us greater return.

Our allotted daily quantity of mental energy
      is exactly the same way.

Some of it we must invest
      in the necessities of life.

But the rest of it
      truly is ours to invest
            in whatever we choose to invest it in.

2. And the second underlying assumption
      is the realization that
            we are the ones who decide
                  where our mental resources are invested.

It is truly under our control.

Now I do not want to take
      a relatively simple
            yet vital survival principle
                  and turn it into a dry, academic study,
      but the beginning of effectively using
            this survival principle
                  is honestly acknowledging that
                        we have tremendous control
                              over the thoughts that dominate our minds.

And I don't know how else to communicate this
      other than to just be simple and direct
            about what I see Paul saying.

If we find our minds
      filled with negative thoughts,
            filled with death and dying,
                  filled with crushing, heavy burdens,
it is because that is what we
      have chosen to fill it with.

And before you think I'm not being fair
      let me tell you why I say that.

The world we live in
      is a world in which everything
            and everyone is deeply scarred
                  with flaws
                        and failures
                              and sins
                                    and problems.

Right now nothing is as it should be.
      Everything has something wrong with it.

Every day we live
       will bring with it something
            and usually lots of somethings
                  that are nasty
                        or ugly
                              or painful
                                    or offensive.
Every day someone will die
      and someone will get sick
            and some place will be too hot
                  and some place will be too cold
                        and some hideous disaster
                              will strike another group of people.

And every day
      we will also be exposed
            to new examples of the faithfulness of our God,
                  and new glimpses into His love,
                        and new opportunities to see Him turn evil into good in our lives,
and we will be exposed to
      new aspects of the beauty
            He has woven into every molecule of this physical creation.

Lam. 3:21 This I recall to my mind, Therefore I have hope.
Lam. 3:22 The Lord's lovingkindnesses indeed never cease, For His compassions never fail.
Lam. 3:23 They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness.
Lam. 3:24 "The Lord is my portion," says my soul, "Therefore I have hope in Him."
Lam. 3:25 The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, To the person who seeks Him.

Every day we live
      each of us chooses what we will focus our mind on that day.

If we choose to fill our minds
      and force our emotions to process
            the endless flood of death and dying
                  and pain and sickness around us
then our day will also be filled
      with a sense of bleak, empty, hurting helplessness.

And life will be a painful, heavy burden.

If, however, we choose to focus our minds
      on the evidences of our God
            and His eternal faithfulness to us
seeking out and savoring
      the glimpses of His kindness
            and His healing
                  and His beauty that fill our days,
those choices will feed and strengthen our spirits.
      
Every person we ever meet
      will have broken places within them,
            things we don't like,
                  things that offend us.
And they will also have
      special gifts they can offer us,
            special ways in which they can reveal to us
                  the creative splendor of our God.

With every person we meet
      we choose whether we focus on
            their brokenness
                  or the good within them.

Every project we will ever come in contact with
      will have flaws,
            scratches,
                  things that just are not quite right about it.
And every project will also have within it
      things that are good.
We choose which we focus on.

EX. About fourteen years ago
      I got this crazy idea
            that I could build our own house.
Prior to that summer
      the biggest thing I'd ever built
            was a plant stand.

During that building process
      there were several times
            when I made frantic phone calls
                  to a friend of mine who was a professional builder.

He always did everything he could
      to talk me through whatever my most recent disaster happened to be.

When I finally finished our house
      there were thousands of things I had done wrong,
            or poorly.
Some of them were glaringly obvious.

Some of them I have been able
      to go back a redo since then.

But I remember the day my licensed contractor friend came over
      to look at the house after I finished.

I know that, to his trained eye
      there were flaws and defects
            everywhere he looked.
But when he finished that tour
      he didn't mention even one flaw,
            or one defect,
and the only thing he said was, "You did great, Larry."

I treasure that memory
      as one of my personal favorite examples
            of a person choosing to look at the good.

The principle Paul is presenting to us
      has application to every aspect of life.

Every situation we ever go into
      will have both positive and negative elements to it.

We are the ones
      who choose what we see
            and what we come away from that situation with.

Every church, every group of Christians
      we are ever involved with
            will have both strengths and weaknesses -
      things they're doing right
            and things they're totally blind to.

We decide whether we drink from the gifts
      God is seeking to offer us
            from our fellow believers,
or whether we attack them
      for their failure
            to live up to our expectations.

Should I bring it closer to home?
Every husband and every wife
      brings to their partner
            both good things
                  and bad.
Every married person decides
      whether they will bring to their marriage
            a heart of gratitude
                  for the good God has given them through their mate,
      or a heart of criticism
            and anger
                  and resentment
for the places they feel their mate
      has fallen short of their expectations.

...whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.

Every job,
      every school,
            every teacher,
                  every circumstance that touches us
presents us with the same choice -
      will I invest my mental energies
            into finding what's wrong here,
or will I invest my mental energies
      into discovering what's good,
            or what my God can turn to good in my life?

And to help us make this
      as practical as possible,
            I'd like to share with you
                  an approach I follow personally
and one that I consider crucial
      to my own mental health
            and stability as God's child.

Because I live in this world
      my life will be touched by evil.
I, like every other human being,
      will have my own personal allotted amount of hurt,
      and suffering,
            and pain,
                  and loss.

Then, added to this,
      because I am a Christian
            my Lord will give me eyes
                  so see some of the consequences of sin
                        in the world around me,
and give me both the desire
      and the ability to help counter
            some of those consequences.

It just comes with being
      His child in this present world.

I have found it to be of tremendous value
      to mentally divide up the evil in the world around me
            into three distinctly different groups
                  and to relate to each group
                        differently.

#1. First of all there is the evil
      that intrudes into my life personally,
            those areas of loss,
                  and hurt,
                        and weakness,
                              and sorrow that I cannot avoid
and cannot control.

Two crucial principles
      govern my relationship
            to these areas of evil.

A. I will find my Lord adequate
      to bring me through the pain.

He has promised that He will never leave me and never forsake me.

He has promised that He will never allow me to be tested beyond what I am able to endure.

And He has promised that no circumstance will ever enter my life
      that is of such a nature
            that it will separate me from the reality of His love.

B. Not only will He go through the pain with me,
      but He will actually transform it
            into good in my life.
Rom. 8:28 ¶ And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.

It's not just a nifty Bible verse,
      it is the absolute commitment
            of the living God
                  to His children.

And at those times when I am confronted with evil
      my calling is to seek to thank my Lord
            for whatever of Him I can see in the situation.

#2. Then there is another whole area of evil I confront,
      evil that has not affected me personally,
            but evil God has given me some jurisdiction over.

By that I mean
      that He has given me the ability
            to contribute to the healing process.

He has allowed me to enter that battle
      in a way that helps bring truth,
            or kindness,
                  or deliverance,
                        or comfort.

In other words,
      He has given me the high honor
            of being used by Him
                  to help reverse a little of the consequences of sin in this world.

He gives every one of us that honor
      every day we live
            in the situations
                  and lives He places us into.

In those situations
      my calling is to discipline my mind
            to focus on the healing
                  and the truth
                        and the deliverance
He wants to bring out of the situation.

Our actions can and will make a huge difference
      in the lives of others
            when we allow God to guide us
                  into the battles He has equipped us to fight.

#3. And then there is a third group of evil.
      And this is the group where Paul's principle here in Phili. 4:8
            becomes all important.

And this is also the point at which
      I may sound
            like I am out of touch with the real world.

This third group includes all that evil in the world
      that does not touch me personally,
            and over which God has not given me
                  any ability to bring any amount of healing.

In other words,
      I can do nothing about it,
            and I can do nothing to change it.

And with all of that evil
      as much as possible
            I choose not force my mind and my emotions to process it.

I don't read the obituaries.

I don't read the detailed accounts
      of the latest tragedies
            in our world
                  or in our community.

I don't watch the movies
      or the programs
            that bombard my mind and my emotions with other people's pain
                  that I cannot help relieve.

I have only so much mental energy.
      I have only so much emotional energy.
            I cannot and I will not squander it
                  on processing evil and tragedy
                        over which I have no control.

Let me just see
      if I can pull together in a phrase or two
            what I believe God is saying to us
                  through this passage in Phili. 4:8.

Our God is absolutely adequate
      to bring us through any evil that touches our lives personally
            and to bring us through with victory
                  and praise to Him.

Our God has also carefully chosen
      to place each of us into the battle of life
            in a way that allows us
                  to effectively combat
                        some aspects of the evil surrounding us.

Who we are
      and what we do can and will make
            a huge difference in our world.

But if we choose to invest huge quantities
      of our mental and emotional energies
            into attempting to process evil
                  over which we have no control,
it will rob us of the energy we need
      for the work He has called us to do.

Phil. 4:8 ¶ Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.