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5/2/99 Prayer Truth And Error Philippians 4:6-7

5/2/99 Phili. 4:6-7 Prayer Truth and Error

Phil. 4:6 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.
Phil. 4:7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Our study of the book of Philippians
      brings us today
            to a topic that is at the same time
one of the most exciting
      and one of the most danger-filled topics
            in all of Christian doctrine.

We are going to look at some comments
      Paul makes about PRAYER.

And just to help us appreciate
      the volatile nature of this topic
            I want you to look at the way in which my just announcing it
                  affected some of you.

Some of you immediately felt a little guilty
      when I mentioned prayer.
You had that little religious twinge within you,
      telling yourself you really should have been praying more than you have been.

And others of you immediately reached
      for several of your personal prayer doctrines-
            and are now anxiously waiting to see
                  if I'm going to give the "right" answers
                        or the "right" emphasis.

I would guess there are also some of you
      who are anxiously hoping
            maybe I can help you make some sense
                  out of what is certainly
                        one of the more confusing areas
                              in our relationship with our God.

Well, let me start by sharing with you
      both what we are
            and what we are not going to do today.

We are not going to launch into
      an extended series on prayer
            because we are not studying prayer,
                  we're studying the book of Philippians.

We are, however,
      going to look closely
            at two remarkable verses about prayer
                  given to us by Paul in this book.

And in the process of looking at these two verses
      we will need to lay some groundwork
            for this whole topic.

And just to keep this whole discussion
      in a proper Biblical context
            I want to start with some general observations.

#1. First of all, let me start with a simple definition:
      Prayer as it is presented in the Bible
            is nothing more or less
                  than a child of God talking with his or her heavenly Father.

Now I know at first glance
       that sounds absurdly obvious.

But to be honest,
      I believe it is that one truth
            that Satan works hardest to defeat
                  of any other truth in the whole amazing world of prayer.

You see,
      there is an intense,
            calculated,
                  massive warfare on the part of Satan
      to blind Christians to the true nature of prayer.

But what we seldom realize
      is that Satan's strategy
            has two equally effective
                  but completely different
                        forms of attack.

The first one we would expect.
      It is to keep the Christian
            from ever discovering the truth
                  about the opportunity God has given us to pray,
                        to talk directly with Him,
                              to Him about anything in our lives.
And we'll talk more about this
      when we get into Paul's comments
            here in Philippians 4:5-6.

But there is another equally effective
      and in some ways
            far more devastating type of attack
                  that Satan brings against true prayer.

If Satan cannot get the Christian
      to stay away from prayer altogether,
            then he will seek to convince the Christian
                  either that prayer is a religious duty
                        or that it is an end in itself.

The religious duty aspect
      may be the easier of the two for us to understand.

Satan's underlying goal in this attack
      is to take a gift God has given us
            and turn it into a religious law
                  or duty we feel we must fulfill.
The life God offers us in Christ
      is a life in which
            He takes up residence within us
                  and literally transforms us
                        by living through us
                              from the inside out.
He does not call us to perform for Him,
      He calls us to discover how to allow Him
            to perform in us and through us.

The great enemy of that life in the Spirit
      is man-made religious systems.

And the life-blood of those systems
      is a list of religious duties
            that we believe we can perform
                  and in so doing improve our standing
      or our acceptability to God.

And let me tell you
      how Satan handles this
            when it comes to prayer.

The truth is
      the privilege of praying is one of the most incredible gifts God has ever given us.

He has told us that
      because Christ has removed forever
            our barrier of sin
                  between us and God,
we now live constantly in His presence
      and have the unlimited privilege of speaking to Him,
      sharing with Him,
            communicating with Him forever.

Satan comes along and says,
      "Every good Christian will have a "time of prayer" each day.

Have you prayed yet today?
      And the underlying message is two-fold:
First, prayer is something you should
      set aside a specific time for,
      and second,
            it is something you should do every day.
If you have a time of prayer every day
      God will be pleased with you.

And I can offer you a little test
      that can help you know
            to what degree this lie has taken root
                  in your own life.

If you find yourself feeling guilty if you didn't have your prayer time,
      or pleased with yourself if you did,
then you've bought the lie.

If either of those responses crop up,
      then prayer has ceased to be
            simply communication with God
                  and has become an element in a religious system.

Converting prayer into a religious duty
      is one of Satan's strategies,
and the other is turning prayer into
      an end in itself.

I can share with you
      a popular cliche
            that will explain part of what I'm trying to say here.

Q. Have you ever seen a plaque
      or a bumper sticker that says,
PRAYER CHANGES THINGS?

Folks,
      prayer never has
            and never will change anything.
Prayer doesn't change things,
      GOD changes things.

This lie takes a wide variety of forms.
There is a popular belief system in our nation
      that suggests the act of praying
            is good for a person.

Prayer and meditation are lumped together
      and we are encouraged to do them
            because they're good for us.
They keep us in touch with our spirituality.

Now I will certainly acknowledge
      that structuring our lives
            in a way that reduces our stress levels
                  and allows us to mentally pull out of the battle on a regular basis
                        is a good thing.

But that is not the same thing
      as Christian prayer.

Prayer as it is presented in the Bible
            is nothing more or less
                  than a child of God talking with his or her heavenly Father.

Anything that makes prayer
      an end in itself
            is not Christian.

Ex. It's like a marriage counselor saying,
      "You know,
            when a husband comes in the house at night
                  it's really good for him to talk.
Talking is good.
      It doesn't matter where he talks.
            It doesn't matter whether his wife is in the same room,
                  or whether she's listening.
It doesn't really even matter if she's home.
      Just talking is good for the man."

Talking in itself is nothing.
      A husband and wife talking with one another about their day
            is of great value.

Prayer in itself is nothing.
      A Christian talking with his God
            about his life
                  is of great value.

And there is one other aspect of this business
      of making prayer an end in itself
            that I just want to offer
                  a strong word of caution about.

The purpose of prayer
      is sharing ourselves,
            our lives,
                  and our concerns with our Heavenly Father.

If you ever find yourself
      becoming more concerned
            about how you pray
                  than you are about Who you're praying to,
                        back off from it.
It isn't your prayers God loves,
      it's you.
It isn't your proper order
      or proper technique,
            or proper phrasing He enjoys,
      it's you He enjoys.

And then one final comment here -
      if you ever begin to look at prayer
            as a tool by which
                  you can get God to do what you want
      you've been deceived.

God is not the great enemy
      we somehow force into submission to our will
            through getting enough people praying
                  or through drumming up the right prayer techniques.

No man ever has
      or ever will manipulate God
            through prayer
                  or anything else.

All true prayer
      begins with the affirmation
            of the absolute goodness of our God.

Paul says it so well:
Rom. 8:31 ¶ What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who is against us?
Rom. 8:32 He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?

And as long as I've gotten into this,
      I'm going to say one other thing here
            that will likely open me up to misunderstanding.

I do believe
      that there is a powerful
            and extremely dangerous
                  satanic deception
that plays on our natural fleshly mistrust of God,
      a deception in which well-meaning Christians
            are deceived into believing
                  that we must somehow conquer God with our prayers,
      finding the right approach,
            the right technique,
                  the right prayer formula
                        that will finally motivate God
                              to do what we want done.

And I believe there are times
      when Satan himself
            will answer those prayers
                  the way we want them answered
in order to further fuel
      our distorted concept of our Creator.

Our God is not an emotionally distant
      semi-hostile spiritual force
            we must somehow conquer
                  or grudgingly recruit
                        in order to meet our needs.
All healthy prayer begins
      with the understanding that our God
            knows us
                  and loves us
                        and cares about us more deeply
than anyone else ever has or ever will.

And then just one more broad observation
      about true prayer -
#2. Every New Testament promise and instruction concerning prayer
      is made exclusively to the Christian.

We in the United States
      are very fond of having National Days of Prayer,
            and political Prayer Breakfasts,
                  and times of national prayer for certain needs that catch the attention of the population.

We have invocations,
      and benedictions at all sorts of public gatherings.

And underlying all of this activity
      is the assumption that God responds to every human being's prayers the same way.

Though we don't put it this way,
      we view prayers to God
            in much the same way as we view
                  fan mail sent to some famous person.

We may even picture God
      filled with delight on national days of prayer
            with all those prayers coming up to Him.

And the underlying lie here once again
      is the belief that it is the PRAYERS God loves,
            no matter who says them
                  or what motivates them.

And let me just state the obvious again -
      it isn't prayer God loves,
            it's US.
And He certainly doesn't need a little ego boost through a few million more prayers
      coming His way.

The truth is
      the promises surrounding prayer
            are promises God has made exclusively to Christians.

God says nothing whatsoever to us
      about the way in which He will respond
            to the prayers of non-christians.

Now, I didn't say He won't answer those prayers.

All I said is that He makes no promise to.
I know of no place in Scripture
      where God says anything to us
            about the prayers of non-christians.

True prayer is a child of God
      talking with his or her Father.

In that context our Heavenly Father
      has given us strong affirmation
            that He hears,
                  He cares deeply,
                        and He responds.

He says nothing to us
      about how He responds
            to the requests of those who are not His children.

It's like this.
This past week my daughter, Joni, and I
      were in the grocery store.
While we were in the store
      Joni picked up several things she needed.

When we got to the check-out line
      she put them down on the little conveyer belt
            along with the things I was getting,
                  and I wrote a check for all of it.

Neither one of us even gave it a thought.

Now why would she do that?
      Because I'm her father.
And why would I do that?
      Because she's my daughter.

Imagine, though, what would happen
      if there would have been
            another young lady behind us in line.

And when the little belt started moving
      she reached over an placed her purchases in with ours
            so that I would pay for hers as well.

There are some circumstances
      in which I might go ahead
            and include her things in my check.
But it would be a judgement call on my part.

I would have no commitment to her
      to do so.

The only commitments God has given us concerning prayer
      are commitments He has made
            to those who have placed themselves
                  under the Lordship of Jesus Christ.

You know what prayer is?
      It's just one of the many incredible fringe benefits
            of living in a Father-child relationship with our Creator through Jesus Christ.

And with all of that background
      next week we'll take a look
            at the remarkable comments Paul makes concerning prayer
                  in Philippians 4:6-7.