©2003 Larry Huntsperger Peninsula Bible Fellowship

04/13/03

The Lies That Bind

Ephesians 2:1-10

4/13/03 The Lies That Bind

 

Our study last week of Paul’s letter to the Ephesians

      took us into several parallel verses in Colossians

            and, on thinking about it this past week,

                  I’ve decided it might be of value for us to spend a little more time

                        with some of what we were looking at.

 

If you were with us you’ll remember that we were studing a statement Paul makes in Ephesians 2:6

      in which he tells us that God “... raised us up with Him, and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus...”.

 

He is describing for us

      the way in which God united our spirits

            with Himself in an eternal protective union

                  at the time we came to Him through faith in Christ’s death for our sins.

 

In that parallel passage in Colossians 3:3

      Paul describes us as being “... hidden with Christ in God.”

 

The words used by Paul are carefully chosen

      both to communicate the truth

            and to create for us the mental picture of an inseparable and eternal love union

                  between us and our God.

 

There’s one phrase we skipped over in this Ephesians passage

      that I want to emphasis now

            because it is a crucial part of the overall message Paul wants to communicate,

a phrase found in Ephesians 2:4 where Paul says,

But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us...

 

When I read that phrase I see Paul reaching for just the right words

      to correctly and powerfully present to us

             the truth about this God who has called us to Himself.

 

He isn’t just a merciful God,

      He is a God RICH in mercy.

 

God’s heart of mercy is the foundation upon which His every action toward us is based.

 

And it isn’t just that He loves us,

      but it is because of His GREAT love with which He loved us...

 

Our Lord knows that when we come to Him

      we come with our minds filled with reservations,

            and doubts,

                  and concerns about what we can really expect from our God.

 

We know that, if He chooses too,

      there’s a whole bunch of stuff in our lives

            that He can pull out and confront us with,

things that, when we are honest about them,

      cause us a sense of shame,

            and failure,

                  and helplessness.

 

We may have created a reasonably good image before our fellow human beings,

      but the thought of standing before our Creator

            is a whole different matter.

 

Obviously He knows the truth,

      and the possibility of Him buying into any of our excuses

            just doesn’t seem real hopeful.

 

It’s no wonder we all spend so much energy

      playing mental games with our God,

            pretending He’s not there,

                  or pretending He grades on the curve and we are surely somewhere in the middle,

                        or pretending one good act erases one bad act so we’re probably safe,

or maybe just telling ourselves

      that His moral standards are utterly unreasonable,

            and impractical,

                  and incapable of providing us with an approach to life in which our needs can truly be met.

 

Nothing has really changed, you know,

      since Adam and Eve first tried to hide from God in the Garden of Eden.

 

We may look at that account in the book of Genesis

      and laugh at the absurdity of it all.

 

Here is the Garden God Himself created,

      in the world He alone brought into existence,

and here are Adam and Eve

      hiding behind a little bush

            saying to one another, “Keep real still...maybe He won’t see us...”

 

And yet every one of us do exactly the same thing.

 

We find our own little bush to hide behind.

 

“There’s so many other people in the world,

      I’ll bet He doesn’t even know I’m here.”

 

Or maybe we hide behind a frantic schedule

      that just simply doesn’t allow for any time

            to worry about that God thing.

 

Or we hide behind a nice big bush of religion,

      telling ourselves that our good works,

            and religious devotion,

                  and faithful church involvement

will surely put us in good standing with God.

 

Or maybe we hide behind our keen intellect,

      skillfully unmasking what we believe to be the “flaws”

            in either the Christian message

                  or, more likely, in the Christians who claim to believe that message.

 

Or we find one of the countless other bushes in our world,

      crouching,

            hiding,

                  hoping He’ll just walk on by.

 

But you remember what happened with Adam and Eve, don’t you?

      The Lord called their names.

 

And He’s been doing the same thing

      with every one of us ever since.

 

That’s why some of you are here this morning...

      because God has been calling your name

            and, the truth is, you don’t know what to do about it.

 

Right now you probably think it’s you reaching out to God.

     

But it’s not.

 

It’s God reaching out to you.

 

He’s the One who has created within you

      that hunger for Him,

            that curiosity to find out a little more,

                  that desire you’ve found within yourself

                        to get things straightened out between you and Him.

 

That’s Him calling your name.

      That’s Him making you aware

            that He knows exactly where you are,

                  and who you are.

 

That’s Him creating within you

      the courage to stand up

            and step out from behind your hiding place.

 

And these words here in Ephesians 2:4

      are written to prepare us for that interview

            between us and our God

                  that will follow if we respond to His calling our name.

EPH 2:4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us...

 

Do you know why He’s been calling your name?

      Do you know why He stopped right in front of that bush you’ve been hiding behind?

            Do you know why He’s been coaxing you out into His light?

 

I can tell you why in a single sentence.

      Or rather, I can let the Apostle John tell you.

 

JOH 3:17  "For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him.

 

There it is again,

      the same message.

EPH 2:4 But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us...

 

And just so we see this whole thing correctly,

      just so that we don’t deceive ourselves into believing

            that maybe He didn’t notice all those things in our lives

                  that drove us into hiding in the first place,

let’s continue on and see how Paul completes that sentence.

 

EPH 2:4-5 But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions...

I think that’s God’s way of saying,

“You’re really quite a little mess, aren’t you, my child?”

 

But that isn’t where the sentence stops.

 

You see, there’s no verb yet.

 

Do you remember all that stuff from back in your school days?

      Do you remember how every sentence has to have both a subject and a verb?

 

The subject is the person or the thing doing whatever it is that’s being done,

      and the verb tells us what the subject did.

 

Now, I don’t want to turn this into a high school English class,

      but sometimes it helps us to grasp what’s really going on in some passage of Scripture

            if we see the structure of the sentence.

 

And this particular sentence

      is carefully constructed to communicate a remarkable message.

 

Now, so far we’ve seen the subject - But God...

 

God Himself is the One doing whatever it is that’s being done.

 

We don’t know what it is He’s doing, yet,

      but we know He’s the One doing it.

 

But then, before we are told what it is that God has done,

      we are given three powerful clarifying phrases

            that set the stage for what God has done.

 

It’s a little bit like this.

 

Here is a basic sentence:

Larry ran into the house.

 

The subject is “Larry”

      and the verb is “ran”,

            and then we’re told where Larry ran...into the house.

 

Big deal!

     

But now, let’s put some modifying and defining phrases into that sentence.

 

Larry, being courageous beyond measure, because of the overwhelming strength of his love, even though the building was a blazing inferno, ran into the house so that he could rescue his beloved Sandee.

 

And you can see how all of those added phrases

      provide crucial information about the subject and the verb.

 

Now, we have a similar thing happening in this sentence spoken to us by God through Paul.

 

We know what the subject is - GOD.

 

And we have been given three key phrases about that subject:

The first one tells us what this God is like-

being rich in mercy...

 

The second one tells us what motivated Him to do what He has done -

because of His great love with which He loved us...

 

And the third tells us what it is He had to overcome in us in order to do what He did -

even when we were dead in our transgressions...

 

And then, after using those phrases to prepare us for what He’s done,

      we finally get to the verb,

            or, in this case the verbs

                  describing for us what this God of ours has done -

 

God...made us alive together with Christ,

      and raised us up with Him,

            and seated us with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus...

 

And the sentence doesn’t stop there.

      God’s communication to us goes one step farther,

            revealing to us the goal God wanted to accomplish

                  as a result of what He has done -

... so that in the ages to come He might show the surpassing riches of His grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.

 

If you’ve been looking for a single sentence in Scripture

      that states for us everything we most need to understand

            about ourselves,

                  about our God,

                        and about what He has accomplished for us through Jesus Christ,

I would offer you this one.

 

But I don’t want to leave this

      without taking the application of this truth

            that we were looking at last week

                  and clarifying it a little more.

 

We were using that parallel passage in Colossians

      where Paul is talking with the Colossians about this same truth.

 

He says, COL 3:1 Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

 

With the Colossians, though,

      Paul doesn’t just state the truth - that we have been raised up with Christ -

            but he goes on to explain

                  how we can take this truth

                        and apply it to our lives on a daily basis.

 

He goes on to say,

COL 3:2 Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.

 

And toward the close of our time together last week

      I suggested that when Paul tells us to,

“Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth”,

      he is telling us

            that our most effective weapon against the lies that bombard our reasoning and our emotions each day

                  is the weapon of choosing to turn our minds once again onto the truth

                        and then telling ourselves that truth,

                              no matter what we may be feeling at the moment.

 

I want to say some more about that

      to help us better appreciate what’s really going on here.

 

But, before I go any farther this morning,

      I need to take a little side-track

            and share something with you

                  that, quite honestly, I should have mentioned when I first began.

 

If you were with us last week,

      you may remember that at one point I was joking about a cold I’d picked up two weeks ago,

            and that during one particularly rough night

                  I woke up terrified that I’d contracted that deadly severe acute respiratory syndrom that’s entered the U.S.

 

Well, last Sunday evening my “cold” took a terrible turn for the worse,

      and late Sunday night I was having so much trouble breathing

            that Sandee finally took me into the Emergency Room.

 

They strapped an oxygen mask onto me

      and ran all sorts of tests,

            and, though the final lab reports are still not back,

it does now appear as though,

      when Sandee and I were in Hawaii several weeks ago,

            I did indeed contract the virus.

 

Obviously, I’ve made quite a remarkable recovery during the past six days,

      and I have been assured that I am no longer contagious,

            but I share this with you all this morning

                  because any of you who were in direct contact with me last week should get tested.

 

There is no known cure for the thing,

      but large doses of vitamin C do seem to help.

 

It’s also strongly suggested that,

      until you know whether or not you have contracted the disease,

            you should avoid all close contact with others.

 

OK, now, what are you going to do with what I’ve just shared with you?

 

You’ve got several options.

 

You can go out right now

      and buy massive quantities of Vitamin C.

 

You can check yourself into the hospital

      and demand that they test you for the SARS virus.

 

You can do nothing

      and worry yourself sick over whether you were close enough to me to get infected.

 

You can contact a lawyer

      and begin a lawsuit against me

            and against the church

                  for our failure to notify you of this until today.

 

Or, you can listen to me right now

      when I tell you that everything I’ve just shared with you during the past few minutes is a lie

            and all I ever had was an irritating little cold.

 

But only one of those options

      is going to give you the freedom

            and the true sense of security you need.

 

Now what in the world

      does all of that have to do

            with Paul’s instructions to us to, “Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.”?

 

Virtually everything in our lives

      that has the power to cause us fear,

            or a sense of stress,

                  or anxiety

does so because it feeds off of some lie being told to us

      by either our mind

            or our emotions,

some lie that we have accepted as truth

      and are now trying to deal with in our lives.

 

When Paul talks about “things above”

      and “things that are on the earth”

he is using those two phrases

      to describe for us

            the root source of the information we’re building our lives on.

 

The “things above” are all those things

      that our God has told us are true,

            those things that are consistent with the truth that comes to us from Him,

things like the peace we now have with God through Christ,

      things like His assurance that He will never, ever leave us or forsake us,

            things like His promise that He has already made us adequate as servants of a new covenant,

                  things like His affirmation that no created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord,

                        and, of course, things like His assurance that we are right now seated ... with Him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus.

 

And that’s just the tiny tip of the iceberg.

 

The “things that are on the earth”, by contrast,

      are the things that just naturally flow from all of those reasoning processes

            and all of those emotional memories

                  that were imbedded into us in that life we have lived outside of our union with Christ.

 

OK, now, here’s the trap we so often get ourselves pulled into.

 

We begin by accepting as truth

      the message that grows out of “the things that are on the earth”.

 

In other words,

      we accept without question

            the conclusions our human reasoning processes lead us to

                  or the emotional responses we feel.

 

And then we turn to our Lord

      and attempt to get Him to supply us with the resources we need

            to face and fight the enemy we are convinced we must defeat.

 

In my virus lie

      that is the equivalent of running out and buying cases of vitamin C

            and checking yourself into the hospital.

 

And then, when God doesn’t supply us with the money we need

      for the 40 cases of vitamin C we just ordered,

or when we find that the hospital refuses to test us for the virus,

      we see Him as having failed us once again.

 

The simple truth is

      God does not supply us with the strength to fight battles He has not given us to fight.

What He does give us

      is the truth we need

            to recognize the lies that keep us bound,

and the strength we need

      to fight and win the battles He has chosen to fight through us.

 

Now, let me see if I can pull this together in a few simple statements.

 

1. When we find ourselves feeling overwhelmed,

      or fearful,

            or filled with anxiety,

begin by looking at the underlying lie we have believed that’s feeding those feelings.

 

Now, how do I know there’s a lie within us when those feelings are present?

 

I know that

      because I know that we are right now seated with Christ in heavenly places,

            and that our life is hidden with Christ in God.

 

Now honestly, can you imagine a person physically sitting next to God Himself,

      filled with all sorts of fears and anxieties

            over terrifying things that might happen to him?

 

If we are feeling those things,

      underlying those feelings is usually a belief system that is rooted in a lie.

 

Last week I shared with you how I went through several weeks

      in which my entire outlook on the future

            rose and fell on the basis of a sales number posted on amazon.com.

 

Underlying those emotional responses was a lie within me

      that was telling me

            that my future happiness,

                  and certainly any hope I would ever have

                        for any kind of realistic retirement in the years ahead

                              depended upon the sales success of that book.

 

But even that was not the real lie.

 

The real lie was the belief that,

      even though my God has shown Himself to me in amazing faithfulness for more than 30 years.

            I really couldn’t trust Him to continue that faithfulness

                  for the next phase of my life.

 

1. So, recognize the lie exists.

 

2. Then, ask God’s Spirit to give you eyes to see the lie,

      and to put it into words.

 

3. Then, finally, set your mind on things above.

      Tell yourself the truth,

            the truth about your God,

                  the truth about your union with Him,

                        the truth about His sufficiency within you for whatever He allows you to face,

                              the truth about His mercy and His grace poured out upon you,

                                    the truth about His great love with which He loves you.

 

I am certainly not suggesting here

      that all the hard times we face

            are simply products of our imagination brought about by lies we have believed.

 

Every one of us face very real

      and sometimes very difficult battles in life.

 

But I am suggesting

      that we have a remarkable ability to drain ourselves of the energy we need for those battles

            by cluttering our lives up with countless other battles

                  that God never called us to fight

                        because they are rooted in lies we have believed.

 

We know with certainty

      that whenever our God gives us a battle to fight

            He will also give us the grace and the strength we need to fight it.

 

And at those times when we find ourselves feeling utterly overwhelmed,

      it is a healthy process for us to step back

            and ask ourselves honestly

                  if we have begun fighting viruses we’ve never been exposed to.