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What is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is a pattern of assaultive and controlling behaviors among people who are married, living together, or have an ongoing or past intimate relationship. It includes physical (battering), sexual, verbal and psychological attacks against the victim as well as against the victim's children, property or pets.

How do I know if what I'm experiencing is abusive?

Although abusive tactics may differ from relationship to relationship, the following may help you identify potential and/or abusive bahavior:

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What is your partner's behavior around your friends and family? (does he/she try to limit your time with them?)

How does your partner interact with his/her own family members? (what was his/her childhood like?)

Does your partner act or behave in a jealous manner toward you (using "love" as a reason)?

Does your partner tell you where you may go, what to do, who you may talk with, etc.?

Did your partner push for quick and exclusive involvement with you?

How does your partner react to your personal limits and boundaries?

Does your partner express his/her needs in an inappropriate manner (demanding, criticizing, etc.)?

What is your partner's view on gender equality? Does he/she have a rigid role belief?

Does your partner ridicule your thoughts, beliefs, and decisions?

Are you able to share your thoughts and feelings openly with your partner without feeling afraid or having to justify yourself?

Does your partner blame you or others for making him/her "feel angry"?

Does your partner have difficulty expressing emotions other than frustration; does he/she boast about confrontations with others?

Does your partner call you names or make you feel stupid (even in public)?

Does your partner give you gifts to make up for his/her behavior toward you?

Has your partner ever threatened to harm you or your children?

Has your partner ever threatened to commit suicide?

If you need someone to talk with, you can call
our 24-hour crisis line at (907) 283-7257.

Safety Plan

If you need a safe place to stay,
the The LeeShore Center Emergency Shelter offers
safe, confidential housing.

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